Dating lessons
By Christine Chacha “ If a relationship did not last, it taught you something that you need to make the next one last” read on Facebook and I couldn’t help but reflect on the various trials, triumphs and lessons that I’ve learned in all my past relationships. Some made me smile but honestly some made me sad as I though “what as I thinking! but I am very grateful for the lessons that I have learned and am still learning along the way. My father believes living is actualized when learning from past experiences informing future decisions and I agree with him. Here are some of the things that I learnt from my own experiences and others from friends that I vowed to never do again in the name of love or being in a relationship. Lose myself in a relationship: I used to be one of those girls who completely submerge myself into the guy that I was seeing, his interests and hobbies became mine to a point where I barely recognized myself. But now I know that changin...