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I've heard a lot of guys referring to girls they are dating in many ways but none has ever struck a raw nerve as the one I heard recently.  I actually didn’t know how to react. Have you ever wondered why men rarely marry women they date for years?  You date a guy all the way through campus, see him through the roughest times of his life and stick with him when the world is against him, then he suddenly dumps you only to marry a bimbo he met three months ago? As disturbing as it sounds, we all agree that in most cases, men never marry those they date, and if they do, the marriage will never be a smooth ride. I set out to find out why this is the case and the answers I got shocked rather than enlightened me.Apparently, men place all the girls they date in three categories. For every man, there is the girl to marry, the girl to date and the girl to sleep with.While we all desire to be in the first category, it all depends on the character you exhibit to him, but de...

By Christine Chacha A friend once told me that every woman, whether married, single or divorced needs four types of men to successfully live. She believes each one of us needs the father of your babies, the financier, the office husband and the guy who makes you feel like you are on top of the world. I couldn’t agree with her more because women, unlike men, are not jack of all trade-although some try- so we do need help sometimes. It doesn’t mean we are weak, though it just means we need a man to sort some things in life. With this in mind, here is a list of men that every woman needs in her life, those that she cannot do without, they make your life easier. The platonic male friend: This is a guy who has been with you through the rough tides and the calm seas. He could be a childhood friend, a guy from school, a relative, a neighbour or a guy who knows you too well. Every woman should have one. I have one-my pal Davie, and he has taught me everything I know about...

If there is one thing that I am certain about, is that majority of women do not like their men’s friends. They may play pretty when around them, but inside they do not like them. Sadly, if you really love a man, you have to learn how to get along with his friends.I think, in most cases, it is because men are not good at balancing between friends and their women. I know women who like their men to live and breathe for them.  They force them to abandon their friends. Sadly, men do not like this. They feel like you are being too clingy or a nag and this has been a constant cause of conflict among couples. So, what would make another woman complain about a man who makes her the center of his universe? I thought she would be the happiest woman on earth. “My boyfriend is a loner,” complained my pal Deana, “We have been dating for a year now and I can tell you for a fact that he has no friends. He always wants to hang out with me. I thought it was cute and I enjoyed the att...

By Christine Chacha. Is it me or has the concept of friendship eluded most people?  Being nice or chatty to someone for the sake of wanting to make a friend is so often misconstrued that I have given up on trying to make friends with the opposite sex. You see, I recently moved to a new town. As you can imagine this is hard enough and trying to make new friends even harder. So I met this guy and somehow we seemed to click, we shared similar interests and happened to be in the same field of work. We both had passion for music, liked probing the philosophical and theological facets of life, love for natural beauty, and good conversation. More than friends Unfortunately this ‘perfect’ friendship suddenly changed. He obviously wanted us to be more than friends, and I was naïve to think we were on the same script. He started distancing himself from me and disappeared all together. What a waste to a great friendship! Why do men always have to complicate things with feel...

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