are all men cheats?
By Christine chacha
One thing that I have come to believe in is the famous phrase that, “All men are dogs.” Before I started dating; I was raised to believe that men are cheats. So, I cautiously tested the water and eventually confirmed it to be true. Through my own experience and from what I have heard from my friends, one thing stands out; cheating is a different concept between the sexes. While women need reasons to cheat, men don’t; they do it simply because they can!
Things like the selective memory of men perplex me, but what threw me off balance was the claim that a certain man made. It is one that is echoed all over. That a man will love his wife to death, yet still cheats on her because to him, sex is just sex. Somehow, men of this type are the ones who have it all going for them, a perfect wife, a good family and a great career; the likes of Tiger Wood. I will not get back to Tiger’s story because if he is not a psychopath then I don’t know what he is.
Anyway, my question is, what is it with men and cheating?
A research by a US professor estimates that 40 per cent of men seek sexual satisfaction outside their relationships, and the number increases due to technology that has made cheating easy.I once asked a friend, why she keeps on taking back her cheating husband? Her answer not only shocked me, but also made me so mad that I wanted to literally beat some sense into her.
“That’s how men are, as long as at the end of the day he comes back to me, it’s okay,” she said.
I refuse to believe cheating is in their genes. If a woman can be faithful, then why can’t a man be. If some men can actually be faithful, then why can’t everyone?I believe a man who cheats on you, doesn’t care about you, probably doesn’t even love you and will soon send you packing.
If God wanted men to cheat, the He would have created Adam, Eve and maybe, a Mary. But He did not.The other thing that convinces me of men’s folly is the reasons they give for it. “I want variety. My wife bores me. She has changed. Just for the fun of it.”
These are some of the absurd reasons men give for cheating.I have asked around and here are some reasons as to why men cheat:
1) It boosts their ego
2) They are selfish
3) Opportunity is everywhere
Women are the victims of this. They believe what they want to believe and not the truth. Men have no problem lying and saying what women want to hear in order to get what they want. Women want to give, and men want to take. It’s unfair.
One man admitted to me that he actually told his current girlfriend that he is a married man, loves his family and would never leave his wife at any point. “Since the woman did not mind; I can have my cake and still eat it,” he said. And for him, that is the reason why he cheats; because women out there are ready to help him do it.
How can a woman knowingly have an affair with a married man? It’s just pathetic.If anything, women need to unite.My mother once told me that when it comes to cheating with a married man, karma always applies. If a man walks up to you, tells you he’s married and is just looking for fun, put him off.
Men get away with far too much because women allow them to. If he does not blackmail you into believing that you are the reason he cheated, he will tell you, that is how he is. Somehow, most women fall for his lies and sadly, it only causes grief and brings you diseases.
Indeed, all men are dogs but some are wild while others are tamed. Leave the wild ones to those who can handle them and stick to the tamed ones.It may not be very thrilling but it’s safer. If he turns wild, let him go
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Things like the selective memory of men perplex me, but what threw me off balance was the claim that a certain man made. It is one that is echoed all over. That a man will love his wife to death, yet still cheats on her because to him, sex is just sex. Somehow, men of this type are the ones who have it all going for them, a perfect wife, a good family and a great career; the likes of Tiger Wood. I will not get back to Tiger’s story because if he is not a psychopath then I don’t know what he is.
Anyway, my question is, what is it with men and cheating?
A research by a US professor estimates that 40 per cent of men seek sexual satisfaction outside their relationships, and the number increases due to technology that has made cheating easy.I once asked a friend, why she keeps on taking back her cheating husband? Her answer not only shocked me, but also made me so mad that I wanted to literally beat some sense into her.
“That’s how men are, as long as at the end of the day he comes back to me, it’s okay,” she said.
I refuse to believe cheating is in their genes. If a woman can be faithful, then why can’t a man be. If some men can actually be faithful, then why can’t everyone?I believe a man who cheats on you, doesn’t care about you, probably doesn’t even love you and will soon send you packing.
If God wanted men to cheat, the He would have created Adam, Eve and maybe, a Mary. But He did not.The other thing that convinces me of men’s folly is the reasons they give for it. “I want variety. My wife bores me. She has changed. Just for the fun of it.”
These are some of the absurd reasons men give for cheating.I have asked around and here are some reasons as to why men cheat:
1) It boosts their ego
2) They are selfish
3) Opportunity is everywhere
Women are the victims of this. They believe what they want to believe and not the truth. Men have no problem lying and saying what women want to hear in order to get what they want. Women want to give, and men want to take. It’s unfair.
One man admitted to me that he actually told his current girlfriend that he is a married man, loves his family and would never leave his wife at any point. “Since the woman did not mind; I can have my cake and still eat it,” he said. And for him, that is the reason why he cheats; because women out there are ready to help him do it.
How can a woman knowingly have an affair with a married man? It’s just pathetic.If anything, women need to unite.My mother once told me that when it comes to cheating with a married man, karma always applies. If a man walks up to you, tells you he’s married and is just looking for fun, put him off.
Men get away with far too much because women allow them to. If he does not blackmail you into believing that you are the reason he cheated, he will tell you, that is how he is. Somehow, most women fall for his lies and sadly, it only causes grief and brings you diseases.
Indeed, all men are dogs but some are wild while others are tamed. Leave the wild ones to those who can handle them and stick to the tamed ones.It may not be very thrilling but it’s safer. If he turns wild, let him go
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