psycho women

By Christine Chacha

This article is dedicated to my pal Davie who had a real bad encounter with the female specie last week. They say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned , if you doubt this ask Davie, what happened to him is a case of women gone psycho.

Women are assumed to be lovable, innocent and naïve. If a relationship goes wrong most people are quick to point an accusing finger at the man .Like the rest of you , I saw no fault in women,  after all aren’t men always the cheaters and the liars? But Davie's case opened my eyes to a new breed of women who are just as terrible as the men.

Men and women are both seduced by one feature of their mate. It could be their looks, their money, intelligence or the big L-word, “love.” Whatever it is, they both enter into a relationship with a hope of coping with each others differences.

There are some women who exude dangerous traits; they enter relationships with bad intent. They will suck a man dry and drive him to the brink of sanity. In short they are dangerous; they are mean and bring nothing but pain to a man

Back to Davie, poor guy had his clothes burned, his car windows smashed and the car sprayed with black paint by his ex-girlfriend whom he had just broken up with. Although she was very sweet and cute on the surface, she was an emotional rollercoaster. She said the break up was unexpected and she had ‘invested’ so much in the relationship to be dumped. The details I got from Davie is that the girl was psycho and he regrets falling for her charm.

The psycho chic is absolutely crazy type of women out there who do outrageous things to men. Maybe you have acted psycho at some point. Someone once told me that every woman is psycho,that they all have a bit of psychotic behaviors in us that if let loose will have some of us in mental asylums. Actually I don’t dispute that.

Are you clingy and stick to your man like a leech, are you green eyed and think every other skirt wearer is out to get your man? If you keep tabs on your man like a prisoner, or you are an emotional wreck like you act hysterical at one time, you are happy the next instant and angry in teh next hour  then you are probably going psycho. A woman who sets her mans car on fire, stalks her ex and make his life  unbearable is just plain crazy.

Then there are the sperm jackers; these are the women who want nothing to with a man but everything to do with his juices. I put such women in the crazy women category because it doesn’t matter if she wants the man or not, their decision to get some wild oats will wreck the man’s life in one way or another. Unfortunately today there are so many women who are sperm jackers. She could be the woman who is running out of time an needs a bun in the oven as soon as possible, miss independent who just wants to mother her baby without male involvement or just the trapster whom a man refuses to marry despite years of dating, all she has to do is get pregnant to drag the man to the altar. They are dangerous ones because they draw a man into a life he is not prepared for; daddy commitment. Davie revealed to me that no man can deny his baby if it comes at the right time: “The reason men deny pregnancies is because women shock us, they want us to start a phase of life we are not ready for,” he said. Are you looking for a man to sire your child? If you don’t come out and let him know what you are up to, then you are also the crazy type.

The Gold diggers are for obvious reason the second most hated women-after the sperm jackers-. You start a relationship with a man with the sole purpose of siphoning his finances to your bank account. You can never give ordinary john a glance, “he is too broke for me,” you say. You abide by the principle of no romance without finance like the 10 commandments only you take it alittle too far.  All a goldigger notices in a man is his bank account if its starts dwindling, so does her 'love'. Sure we want a man who is able to provide, but there is more to relationships than money.

The macho female; Davie swears that the macho females is every man’s worst fear. When they look at a man who has been turned to putty by his woman, men cringe at the thought. “Its worse than murder” he says .It could be through love potions, psychological control, financial control whatever a woman uses to make a man sissy is just not acceptable.
But worse still are the women who not only control but also beat up their men.I know  women are hurt by domestic violence, it is not acceptable to beat up a man; its crazy!

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