dating a player
Single In the City
By Christine Chacha
You just met him and he showed interest in you. He is the hottest thing you have ever met, the full package; looks, money and a personality to go with it. Problem is he is a player and you know it. A womanizer who will not let a skirt pass him, he does not respect women and treats them as trophies or possessions, he puts his needs first and know nothing about being a gentleman.But despite all this and a countless warnings from your girlfriends you cannot resist the lure of this bad boy, he is an eye candy and such fun to be with.
So despite the fact that he is a player, you want to be with him and maybe keep him.We all date players at some point in life, its part of kissing frogs before Mr .right comes along. How do you date him without having to nurse a broken heart and enjoy the ride while it is lasts. Looks and hotness aren¹t everything, but they¹ll do for right now!
All you need is a manual on how to survive when dating the smoking hot player.
All you need is a manual on how to survive when dating the smoking hot player.
Look the part
Know what kind of women this player likes and be like those women. Players will want to have the most beautiful women around him those that make him feel like a god before his friend. His eyes will always be on the lookout for those girls, so make sure you are that girl. Dress and look the part of dating a hot guy. Its costly to date him be ready to Invest in a new wardrobe and make up. You should always be dressed to kill, be both feminine and sexy.
Become a super bitch
Every woman will wish they are you and will flock around him. Make sure you accompany him to every event. The game plan is to mark your territory subtly; any lady can tell when another woman is protecting her territory. It is in the way you are all over the guy, the cold way you say hi to the other women, the warning and glaring look you give them. Eye every woman with suspicion and make sure they all know that you are with him now and stay away. Dating this guy is not easy so be a drama queen once in a while, accidentally delete all his female contacts on the phone menu, accidentally answer his phone especially when it’s a female caller. Do not make it obvious though.
Make it about HIM
Players are known to be insensitive to women’s needs, do not expect him to treat you like a lady, he will often call you when he wants you and will rarely do anything for you. The best way to survive dating him would be to expect less, and keep your emotions out of it.Be ready to put up with his cheating sometimes, lower your self esteem to put his needs before yours. Let the player know that you adore him , make him feel like he is the most amazing guy in the world that will keep him around.
Players are known to be insensitive to women’s needs, do not expect him to treat you like a lady, he will often call you when he wants you and will rarely do anything for you. The best way to survive dating him would be to expect less, and keep your emotions out of it.Be ready to put up with his cheating sometimes, lower your self esteem to put his needs before yours. Let the player know that you adore him , make him feel like he is the most amazing guy in the world that will keep him around.
Size your competition
Knowing what kind of things the guy is into and what makes him tick may prolong the relationship .If sex and pampering is what makes this hot stud move be prepared to give it him wholeheartedly as you enjoy being with him. If an ego boost is what he wants, then get down right submissive. If the guy is a sucker for sports, cars and women. They are your competition so know what you can safely compete with and what can knock you out. Be ready to spend endless hours watching a boring match between Man U and Arsenal or Safari Rally than taking him to a club where all the beauties are .You are much safer competing with sports than with another woman. Keep him away from all your hotter friends, we love them but competition is the last thing you want when dating this smoking hot player.
Knowing what kind of things the guy is into and what makes him tick may prolong the relationship .If sex and pampering is what makes this hot stud move be prepared to give it him wholeheartedly as you enjoy being with him. If an ego boost is what he wants, then get down right submissive. If the guy is a sucker for sports, cars and women. They are your competition so know what you can safely compete with and what can knock you out. Be ready to spend endless hours watching a boring match between Man U and Arsenal or Safari Rally than taking him to a club where all the beauties are .You are much safer competing with sports than with another woman. Keep him away from all your hotter friends, we love them but competition is the last thing you want when dating this smoking hot player.
Maximize the benefits
Finally focus on the benefits and maximize them. Just hanging around him may be an ego booster, walking down the streets with him leaves all your friends green with envy. Could be enough but this may not be all that this hot player brings to you. Hot action between the sheets , expensive gifts and pampering you while you are together .Make sure you maximize everything and enjoy it to the last drop. Whatever the joy is, focus on it and enjoy it as long as possible, look at him even after he has left and pride yourself in having him in this life time. The trick is to make the most of whatever he brings forget his checking out other women what matters is that he is with you right now, use him for all its worth make sure when he leaves you will not be high and dry. Have something to show for it and don’t let it be a broken heart.
Keep your eyes and heart open.Incase he wants to jump ship, let him go do not fall heads over heels for him.It will save you a broken heart.You do know that he is a player and will move any second so prepare for it.Do not wait for him to spell it out to you let him go trying to keep him hostage will exhaust you.
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